The Dangers of Celebrating Valentine’s Day & Not Teaching Your Children About It
Have you ever taught your teens about Valentine’s Day? It’s not enough to simply say, “We don’t celebrate it.” Children need to understand why—especially when their friends at school and even some family members take part.
What are the dangers of this celebration? Why is it something Muslims should avoid?
As parents, we have a duty to educate our children with knowledge and understanding so they can stand firm in their beliefs. When they know the truth, they will be able to protect themselves and others from engaging in this non-Islamic practice.
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Valentine's Day is not connected to our Islamic beliefs, as it is named after a Christian "saint" who was reportedly put to death on February 14th of the third Christian century for marrying young lovers against the Roman emperor's orders. This tradition is not legislated in our religion, and it is advised that Muslims refrain from taking part in it. Unfortunately, it has gained widespread acceptance among Muslims, encouraging involvement in forbidden relationships and pursuit of desires for the opposite gender. It is important to educate our children about the reasons to avoid this practice and the significance of abstaining from it. May Allah shield our children from being exposed to such influences at a young age, which could lead them to develop infatuations and desires for the opposite gender before marriage, contrary to Islamic teachings. Presenting love notes to the opposite gender before marriage is prohibited in Islam, yet many Muslim families may unwittingly participate in this practice without realizing its potential impact on the hearts of their children and themselves. I urge all parents, educators, and community leaders to educate our Muslim children about the reasons for refraining from participating in or approaching this immoral behaviour, as it may lead to immoral conduct (zina) and ultimately, condemnation. May Allah protect our children from this wrongdoing.