Sister in Islam, we are saying this specifically for you since you represent a portion of society and educate the other half, and because the enemies of Islam have focused on you; desiring (your elimination and division, all in the name of freedom.
Sister in Islam, I will show you the descriptions of the women of paradise and the descriptions of the women of the hellfire. You can choose the path (you want to follow).
The Most High says:
(Then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honorable manner. And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance, and perform AsSalät (Iqamât-as-Salât), and give Zakât and obey Allah and His
Messenger. Al-Ahzaab: 32-33
(Then be not soft in speech...] means to observe piety and that the Muslim woman should keep her voice low in front of men that she is not related to.
She should not smile in front of them or joke with them as it will cause men to be moved with desire.
And stay in your houses.) Remain within your homes, sisters. The woman should stay in her home as it is better for her. Do not move about with the men or constantly go out of the home unless there is a need. When you go out because of a need then go out modestly. AtTabarruj (The definition of the word atTabaraj is mentioned by the author of Lisaanul Arab (3/33) as the display of a woman's beauty, the uncovering of her face and the attractive qualities of her body in front of men in addition to everything that arouses their desires, and strutting while observing a type of walk which is done exclusively for anyone besides her husband) to display something of beauty such as a part of the body or decorated clothing. Exposing the arms from the over-garment is a form of atTabarruj. Exposing some of the feet, neck, hair, or detailed portion of clothing underneath is also a form of at Tabarrui such as the pants or the inner transparent clothes. Likewise, gold and perfume and all other decorations (displayed) in front of non-related men is a form of at Tabarruj.
As for the women of the hellfire then the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, described them in a prophetic narration:
(women clothed yet naked, misguided while leading others astray, their heads were like the humps of the long necked camels leaning to one side. They will not enter paradise nor will they smell its fragrance.)
The phrase Clothed women and Naked women means that they wear clothes but they are not covered properly or that they are devoid of modesty. The phrase misguided (while leading others astray) means deviant from the straight path (of Islam) and modesty and that they are infected with sick hearts. The phrase:
Ru'oosuhunna Ka'Asnimat-il-Bukht means they do their hair like the humps of the long necked camels.
Sister in Islam, we have showed you a picture of the descriptions of the women of paradise and a picture of the women of hellfire so choose any of the two
paths.
Sister in Islam, have a set limit for your educational studies and do not ignore marriage over it. By forsaking it you may become a widow of the future (an unmarried woman). Do not imitate the dress, manners, and customs of the non-Muslims and do not take them as an example. May Allah protect you from the evil of your enemies, who lurk for you, and may blessings be upon Muhammad.
Issues The Muslim woman should concern herself with by By Ash-Shaykh 'Abdullah bin Jaar Allah bin Ibraaheem al-Jaar Allah
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