As Muslim mothers, we hold an incredible responsibility — to inspire the next generation of believers, to fill their hearts with love for Allah, and to guide them with the principles of our religion. Yet, we also know that motherhood can be exhausting, overwhelming, and sometimes filled with self-doubt.
But the beautiful thing about motherhood in Islam is that it’s not about perfection. It’s about intent. It’s about sincerity in your efforts to raise your children with love, compassion, and a strong foundation in belief.
Here’s the truth: Every small act of patience, every moment spent teaching your child about the Prophets, every du’a you make for their guidance — it all matters to Allah.
How Can We Stay Firm In Our Belief As Mothers?
1. Trust in Allah’s Plan
When things don’t go as planned, remember: Allah knows what’s best for you and your family. Trust that He is guiding you, even in moments of difficulty. Every trial you face as a mother is a means of purifying your heart and earning reward.
Allah says:
قُل لَّن یُصِیبَنَاۤ إِلَّا مَا كَتَبَ ٱللَّهُ لَنَا هُوَ مَوۡلَىٰنَاۚ وَعَلَى ٱللَّهِ فَلۡیَتَوَكَّلِ ٱلۡمُؤۡمِنُونَ﴿ ٥١ ﴾
• Muhsin Khan and Taqi-ud-Din al-Hilali:
Say: "Nothing shall ever happen to us except what Allah has ordained for us. He is our Maula (Lord, Helper and Protector)." And in Allah let the believers put their trust.
At-Tawbah, Ayah 51
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said:
Strange are the ways of a believer for there is good in every affair of his and this is not the case with anyone else except in the case of a believer for if he has an occasion to feel delight, he thanks (Allah), thus there is a good for him in it, and if he gets into trouble and shows resignation (and endures it patiently), there is a good for him in it.
حَدَّثَنَا هَدَّابُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ الأَزْدِيُّ، وَشَيْبَانُ بْنُ فَرُّوخَ، جَمِيعًا عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ، - وَاللَّفْظُ لِشَيْبَانَ - حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ، حَدَّثَنَا ثَابِتٌ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى، عَنْ صُهَيْبٍ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم " عَجَبًا لأَمْرِ الْمُؤْمِنِ إِنَّ أَمْرَهُ كُلَّهُ خَيْرٌ وَلَيْسَ ذَاكَ لأَحَدٍ إِلاَّ لِلْمُؤْمِنِ إِنْ أَصَابَتْهُ سَرَّاءُ شَكَرَ فَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَهُ وَإِنْ أَصَابَتْهُ ضَرَّاءُ صَبَرَ فَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَهُ " .
Sahih Muslim 2999
2. Patience is a Gift
The Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa salam) taught us that patience is key to our success. Whether it’s dealing with a child’s tantrum or handling the pressures of daily life, patience is not just a virtue — it’s a means of closeness to Allah. And as mothers, Allah rewards us greatly for every moment of patience we display.
Allah said:
یَـٰۤأَیُّهَا ٱلَّذِینَ ءَامَنُوا۟ ٱسۡتَعِینُوا۟ بِٱلصَّبۡرِ وَٱلصَّلَوٰةِۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ مَعَ ٱلصَّـٰبِرِینَ﴿ ١٥٣ ﴾
• Muhsin Khan and Taqi-ud-Din al-Hilali:
O you who believe! Seek help in patience and As-Salat (the prayer). Truly! Allah is with As-Sabirin (the patient ones, etc.).
Al-Baqarah, Ayah 153
3. Consistency, Not Perfection
You don’t need to be perfect, but you do need to be consistent. Teach your children about Allah daily. Share stories of the Prophets. Encourage kindness, gratitude, and prayer. The small, consistent acts you do every day will shape their hearts and build upon their belief, insha’Allah.
Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“Take on only as much as you can do of good deeds, for the best of deeds is that which is done consistently, even if it is little.”
حَدَّثَنَا الْعَبَّاسُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ الدِّمَشْقِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ الأَعْرَجُ، سَمِعْتُ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ، يَقُولُ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ : " اكْلَفُوا مِنَ الْعَمَلِ مَا تُطِيقُونَ فَإِنَّ خَيْرَ الْعَمَلِ أَدْوَمُهُ وَإِنْ قَلَّ " .
Sunan Ibn Majah 4240In-book reference : Book 37, Hadith 141 English translation : Vol. 5, Book 37, Hadith 4240
4. The Power of Du’a
Never underestimate the power of du’a. Make du’a for your children, for your own patience, and for strength to fulfill your role as a mother. The supplications you make today could be the key to your child’s guidance and success in this world and the next.
Allah says:
ٱدۡعُوا۟ رَبَّكُمۡ تَضَرُّعࣰا وَخُفۡیَةًۚ إِنَّهُۥ لَا یُحِبُّ ٱلۡمُعۡتَدِینَ﴿ ٥٥ ﴾
• Muhsin Khan and Taqi-ud-Din al-Hilali:
Invoke your Lord with humility and in secret. He likes not the aggressors.
Al-Aʿrāf, Ayah 55
5. Rely on Allah and Your Community
Sometimes, motherhood can feel isolating, but remember: you are part of a beautiful, supportive ummah. Lean on your community for strength, advice, and encouragement. Surround yourself with like-minded mothers who can uplift and remind you of the bigger picture — raising righteous children who will be a source of barakah (blessing) for you in this life and the Hereafter.
Allah said:
وَٱلۡمُؤۡمِنُونَ وَٱلۡمُؤۡمِنَـٰتُ بَعۡضُهُمۡ أَوۡلِیَاۤءُ بَعۡضࣲۚ یَأۡمُرُونَ بِٱلۡمَعۡرُوفِ وَیَنۡهَوۡنَ عَنِ ٱلۡمُنكَرِ وَیُقِیمُونَ ٱلصَّلَوٰةَ وَیُؤۡتُونَ ٱلزَّكَوٰةَ وَیُطِیعُونَ ٱللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُۥۤۚ أُو۟لَـٰۤىِٕكَ سَیَرۡحَمُهُمُ ٱللَّهُۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ عَزِیزٌ حَكِیمࣱ﴿ ٧١ ﴾
• Muhsin Khan and Taqi-ud-Din al-Hilali:
The believers, men and women, are Auliya' (helpers, supporters, friends, protectors) of one another, they enjoin (on the people) Al-Ma'ruf (i.e. Islamic Monotheism and all that Islam orders one to do), and forbid (people) from Al-Munkar (i.e. polytheism and disbelief of all kinds, and all that Islam has forbidden); they perform As-Salat (Iqamat-as-Salat) and give the Zakat, and obey Allah and His Messenger. Allah will have His Mercy on them. Surely Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise.
At-Tawbah, Ayah 71
A Du’a for Our Children
وَٱلَّذِینَ یَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبۡ لَنَا مِنۡ أَزۡوَ ٰجِنَا وَذُرِّیَّـٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعۡیُنࣲ وَٱجۡعَلۡنَا لِلۡمُتَّقِینَ إِمَامًا﴿ ٧٤ ﴾
• Muhsin Khan and Taqi-ud-Din al-Hilali:
And those who say: "Our Lord! Bestow on us from our wives and our offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and make us leaders for the Muttaqun" (pious - see V. 2:2 and the footnote of V. 3:164)."
Al-Furqān, Ayah 74
Conclusion:
Motherhood is a noble and rewarding journey, and every challenge you face is an opportunity to grow closer to Allah. Keep going, mama, and remember that the work you’re doing is meaningful. You are shaping the future with every lesson, every prayer, and every act of kindness.
May Allah bless you with patience, strength, and success in this beautiful journey of motherhood.
Love Umm Harris ♥️
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