The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:
One who’s intelligent and has good understanding among husbands will honor his wife and treat her well by guarding over her religion; that’s by helping her in the matter of her worship [of Allāh], and then by living together with her in a good way—with noble, generous treatment and good ways of saying things.And he works hard to solve problems and put an end to differences using what Allāh has facilitated for him of a sound, level mind and wise views—[as opposed] to scrutinizing every matter [that comes up with her], great or small.
The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, also said:
One who’s intelligent and has good understanding among women is one who is good to her husband by guarding over his religion; then by keeping safe his place [as head of the household]; taking care to obey him; valuing his opinions; finding excuses for him whenever possible; and being quick to accept his excuse or apology if he apologizes.
And she honors him and treats him well through whatever he likes from things that might be said or done.
For life is giving and sacrifice; two partners come together in it and agree that each must keep on building and that their building must hold together.
Translator:Mikail ibn Mahboob Ariff
Source: m_g_alomary/twitter.com.
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