As a mother, the decision to homeschool your children is one of the most important and impactful choices you can make, especially when living in a non-Muslim country. It’s not just an educational decision; it’s an act of worship for the sake of Allah. This post will explore why homeschooling can be the best choice for your family, how to overcome the doubts and challenges, and why trusting in Allah’s guidance can bring you peace and blessings in this important journey.
Homeschooling: An Act of Worship
When we do anything for the sake of Allah, we must remember that Shaytan will try to stop us. The act of homeschooling is no different. It’s an act of protection and sacrifice, seeking Allah’s pleasure and doing what’s best for your children. Homeschooling your children and protecting them from the harms of the school system, which is increasingly filled with negative influences, is one of the most rewarding choices you can make.
If you’re feeling the pull to homeschool, don’t doubt yourself. The very fact that you are considering it means that Allah wants good for you and for your children. When the idea of homeschooling comes to mind, it’s not random—it’s a sign that Allah is guiding you to what’s best for your family.
Weighing the Risks: Are We Willing to Send Them to School?
In today’s world, it’s crucial to ask yourself: Are we really willing to send our children to school knowing what we know about it?
The school system is no longer the same as it was when we were young. Over the years, I have seen Muslim children lose their Islamic identity, and some even go as far as rejecting their gender. It’s heartbreaking to witness how some children completely lose their connection to Islam in the public school system. Sadly, this has happened in our own community, and we can no longer ignore the growing dangers.
The rise of self-harm, identity confusion, and emotional trauma among young girls is alarming. Many parents, seeing these changes, have had to take action, such as sending their children to Muslim countries because they know these countries provide a safer environment for their children. It’s a terrifying reality that no parent is immune from, regardless of how well-intentioned they are.
The Best Decision for Your Family
When considering homeschooling, it’s important to understand that it’s not an easy decision. Nothing in life is easy, especially when it comes to making sacrifices for the sake of Allah. But when you weigh the benefits against the risks of sending your children into a school system that’s increasingly hostile to Islamic values, homeschooling emerges as the most beneficial and protective choice.
As a mother, you want the best for your children, and this decision could be life-changing for them. In our non-Muslim societies, Islamic values are often sidelined, and children face challenges to their faith and identity. Homeschooling allows you to maintain control over their education and upbringing, while ensuring they are protected from harmful influences.
Trusting in Allah’s Plan
If you’re feeling unsure or hesitant, remember: Do it for the sake of Allah. When anything is done with sincerity for Allah’s pleasure, there will always be blessings in it. Even when things get difficult, remember that you are not alone. Allah’s support and guidance are with you every step of the way.
Many mothers, including myself, have faced doubts and opposition, especially from family members who might not immediately see the benefits of homeschooling. I understand how hard it can be when there is a lack of support. But remember, Allah is your ultimate guide, and you are responsible for your children. Family members will not be held accountable for their actions—you will.
Overcoming Family Pressure
One of the biggest challenges mothers face when deciding to homeschool is the pressure from family members. This is something I’ve heard from many mothers who feel they have to defend their decision. But remember, these are your children, and you are the one who will be held accountable for their upbringing.
If your family doesn’t agree, it’s okay. Trust that you are doing what is best for them, and Allah will reward you for your efforts. Surround yourself with like-minded people and supportive communities who understand your choice. If you feel isolated or discouraged, reach out to those who share your values.
Practical Advice: Getting Started with Homeschooling
If you are considering homeschooling, you are not alone. There are countless resources available to help you every step of the way. I’ve been homeschooling for years now, and I can assure you that it’s not only possible, but incredibly rewarding.
If you’re concerned about secular studies such as math, English, and science, don’t worry. There are many websites, curriculums, and even online platforms that cater to homeschooling families, providing secular education in a safe and supportive environment. Children who homeschool can take their GCSEs much earlier, typically around 13, 14, or 15 years old, as they don’t have to wait around and can progress at their own pace when they’re ready.
Resources for Secular Curriculum:
• Websites offering downloadable worksheets and learning materials
• Online platforms for homeschoolers, where your children can learn alongside like-minded peers
I also teach online Islamic studies to Muslim children aged 7-14 in focused, ongoing classes, keeping them connected and engaged with authentic resources.
If you need any more recommendations, I’d be happy to share them with you. I ran a mother and child group and homeschooling group for around 8 years, and I’ve seen firsthand how homeschooling can provide children with a strong Islamic foundation while excelling in their secular studies.
Final Thoughts: Your Journey for the Sake of Allah
Homeschooling is a journey of faith, sacrifice, and reward. By making this decision, you are doing more than just educating your children—you are safeguarding their deen, protecting them from harmful influences, and ensuring that they grow up strong in their identity as Muslims.
Take the leap, trust in Allah’s plan, and know that He will provide you with the strength and guidance you need. If you need support, I’m here for you—you are not alone in this journey.
May Allah make it easy for you, and may He bless your family in this important decision.
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