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Writer's pictureUmm Harris

A Muslim Child’s Identity





The Importance of Strengthening a Muslim Child’s Identity


As parents, we carry an enormous responsibility to raise our children with strong foundations. When it comes to a Muslim child’s identity, this is even more critical. Teaching our children who they are as Muslims early on will have a massive impact on their lives, In’shaa’Allah. It will protect them from losing their identity as they grow into teens and young adults, which is often a turbulent time. However, establishing this strong identity requires correct tarbiyah, and as parents, we must be the best role models possible. May Allah make us among the righteous.


Why Nurturing a Muslim Child’s Identity Matters


As Muslim parents, our goal should be to raise children who are grounded in their beliefs. We want to ensure that our children do not grow up confused about who they are or what their purpose in life is. It’s crucial to guide them through their formative years so that when they reach their 20s or later stages in life, they don’t feel lost or unsure about their identity.


A Muslim child’s identity should be rooted in the understanding of who they are as servants of Allah. We cannot leave our children to be taught by the influences of non-Muslim societies or to be exposed to beliefs and traditions that are contrary to Islam. We need to actively show them what it means to be Muslim, to help them live by Islamic values, and to make them understand that this is who we are, and this is what Allah expects from His servants.


The Role of Parents in Shaping Identity


As a revert from a non-Muslim family, I didn’t have the Islamic upbringing that many of us strive to give our children today. This personal experience has driven me to work hard, not just for my own children, but for the children of others as well. I don’t want any Muslim child to grow up confused or to copy the identity of others because they are uncertain about their own beliefs and values.


Shaytan is always looking for ways to mislead, and if our children have doubts about their identity, they will be vulnerable to these attacks. We see this every day. Muslim children are losing their sense of who they are, and it’s happening right before our eyes. May Allah protect our offspring from these traps.


How to Strengthen a Muslim Child’s Identity


A Muslim child’s identity must be built on a strong foundation of belief, knowledge, and tarbiyah. As parents, we must never give up on our children, even if we feel overwhelmed. If you are unsure how to teach your children who they are as Muslims, there are resources available. Look to the scholars, the students of knowledge, and the books of the scholars. Seek out reliable and authentic resources that are grounded in Islamic knowledge.


This is why I created my own resources, based on the teachings of the scholars and teachers. If you feel unprepared or unsure, know that learning for the sake of Allah never goes to waste. What you don’t know, you can always seek out and learn.


Make dua, ask Allah to guide you and your children, and then take the means to carry out the process of teaching them. It’s never too late, even for teens who may have strayed. Don’t lose hope in Allah’s mercy; He can change any heart, and we just need to put in the effort. Be consistent, have beautiful patience, and never give up.


The Power of Patience and Gentle Guidance


One piece of advice I’ve learned is to sit down with your children and talk to them. Explain the proofs and evidences of Islam. Let them read the Qur’an and reflect on its verses. Sometimes, reading an ayah can have a profound effect on our hearts, and it might just be what your child needs to experience a life-changing moment. The speech of Allah changes people for the better.


No matter how far a child may have strayed, don’t give up on them. Instead of yelling or becoming frustrated, try gentle guidance. Sitting down, having conversations, and showing kindness can have a far greater impact than shouting or punishment.


Don’t Worry About What People Say—Focus on Allah


As Muslim parents, we sometimes worry about what others might think of us or our children. But remember, it’s not about what people think—it’s about what Allah thinks. When we focus on pleasing Allah and being the best parents we can be for the sake of Allah, we can let go of the burden of worrying about others’ opinions. What matters most is raising children who know who they are and who live as confident, righteous Muslims.


A Muslim child’s identity is shaped by their relationship with Allah, their knowledge of Islam, and the values we instill in them. We must show them the way, In’shaa’Allah, and help them stay strong in their beliefs.


Conclusion


Shaping and strengthening a Muslim child’s identity is not easy, but it’s one of the most important responsibilities we have as parents. It requires dedication, patience, and a deep connection to our own belief. May Allah guide us and give us the strength to raise children who are firm in their belief and understanding of Islam.


Beneficial Reminders:


Do not give up on your children


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